Men have no idea what a woman goes through when she is giving birth. There was a video that made it's way on the internet, that had a man getting buzzed to feel what contractions might feel like. It will never be enough because men and women have different equipment. I think I may have come close to feeling labor.
Gina Temple-Rhodes had her children with a midwife. Her midwife had mentioned that birth has changed over the years, that when her midwife asked her grandmother about birth, there were more than just the fact that men were now a part of the birth process.