This is not a story I want to detail how and when, I was surprised when I put into yahoo! "Something women do on Mother's Day", and this came up.

According to ashleymadison.com, a cheating website, more women start their search for someone new the Monday after Mother's Day more than any other day of the year, and it's been that way the last five years.

So, it's with a sense of humor I say, make sure Mama is happy. If you give her a card to the jelly of the month club and new vacuum, chances are you will see her name appear the next day on a site like that, or something else.

Here's my suggestion, nowadays people are in to experiences. Maybe do something with or for Mom. Maybe she wants to try kayaking, or go for a bike ride. Cook for Mom and make her favorite meal. When you do something for Mom it has value, when you order KFC or pizza for her, that's too easy. Spend some time and think about what she values and make her a part of it.

According to a study conducted by ashleymadison.com, they interviewed just over 10,000 women, most of them want to spend time with hubby, 33 percent want time at the spa, the rest just want to be left alone. So, I'm thinking we are not attending to Mom's needs. Use all three. Get someone to watch the kids, send her and Dad to the spa, and let him take care of dinner and a hotel room. Done!!

Now, let's work on something other than a tie for Dad!!